“When you find yourself riding a dead horse, dismount.” – Native American saying
You can buy a stronger whip, you can take a class to improve your riding skills, you can appoint a committee to study the situation. But the horse is still dead.
When your old ways no longer work, it’s time for change, time to move on. Every day, you must decide what your life will be, what you will become in the next moment. Life constantly changes all around you. You can whine and complain, but you either adapt or die. Forward is your only option.