Yes and no

When you need to say no, say it with authority and grace.   With clarity and understanding you convey, “I respect you, and I also respect myself.”

Constantly saying yes can create the illusion of kindness or selflessness, but sometimes it hides a fear of disappointing others, a fear of being rejected. 

The key is awareness: knowing whether your yes comes from genuine willingness or from a quiet discomfort with saying no.  Let your yes be yes, and no be no.


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