Define it

You get what you want because you took the time to define it.

Clarity is underrated, yet critical. Vague desires routinely yield vague results.  The filter for clarity is crafted through time, experience, and critical thinking.

Discrimination is expensive. You can write down what you think you want, but it takes discipline to look at something that checks eleven of your twelve boxes and walk away because the twelfth box was the one that mattered.

Be ready to define what you want and be ready to say no to what is no more than a cheap substitute of your desire.