Author: Bob Riding

If you can’t manage the present, how will you manage the future? Life is lived in the present.  The future is but a continuing series of nows. Tomorrow does not get better because you waited for a new day to arrive.  It gets better because you use the present moment to tap into the difficulty you are…

Santa is for wishes. The rest of life is about intent. Intent.  Expectation.  Commitment.  Action.  They are what transform mere wishes to achievable desires.

Find your people Surround yourself with people who not only support you, but also hold you accountable.   The ones who are there to help, and also there to challenge you, drive you to your goals.  People who care about you, care enough to keep you honest, care enough to share the inconvenient truths, care enough…

Level up Read the books.  Get the training.  Expand your world.  Push yourself to know more, become more. Dreams and goals left on autopilot travel in circles. Intervene.  Damage your ignorance.  Raise your expectations.  Fly higher than you ever knew you could.

Evict it Most of what scares us never happened, and never will.  We give away rent-free space in our head for unfounded beliefs and emotions – false evidence appearing real.   Is it time to evict the unwanted and disabling thoughts?   Is it time to feel the fear and move past it, move ahead in spite…

The need to be right is a disease A sign of insecurity, and missing self-forgiveness.   An addiction to avoiding mistakes; repeatedly focusing on being perfect and pleasing.  Something is broken. The demand to be right is a certifiable condition.  One that keeps us small, severed from the world.  One that highlights pettiness and narcissism, feeding…