Category: self-help

Level up Read the books.  Get the training.  Expand your world.  Push yourself to know more, become more. Dreams and goals left on autopilot travel in circles. Intervene.  Damage your ignorance.  Raise your expectations.  Fly higher than you ever knew you could.

Evict it Most of what scares us never happened, and never will.  We give away rent-free space in our head for unfounded beliefs and emotions – false evidence appearing real.   Is it time to evict the unwanted and disabling thoughts?   Is it time to feel the fear and move past it, move ahead in spite…

The need to be right is a disease A sign of insecurity, and missing self-forgiveness.   An addiction to avoiding mistakes; repeatedly focusing on being perfect and pleasing.  Something is broken. The demand to be right is a certifiable condition.  One that keeps us small, severed from the world.  One that highlights pettiness and narcissism, feeding…

Get to work You can turn up your nose. You can choose to not show up. Or you can roll up your sleeves. Work hard.  You’re not entitled.  The world needs, and you need, your contribution.

Focus on your own approval Don’t rely on the approval of others.  When you are at the bottom, they may disrespect you.  In the middle, they may ignore you.  At the top, they may revile you. You don’t control the opinion of others – whether right or wrong. You only control your own. And your…

It’s not about who you think you’re not It’s about who you are that holds you back.  Who you think you’re not is just an opinion. Moving ahead is about being accountable for who you are.  If it’s not working, change.