Category: self-help

States of panic are special Appreciate them.  Revere them.  They’re not only warning signs, they’re catalysts for positive change.  Panic is when you’re forced to face reality, when you’re forced to get stronger, and summon the strength you have inside to meet the challenge you face. Inside you have powerful forces available to you.  They’re…

If If you loved yourself truly and deeply, would you allow yourself to experience unhappiness and misery? The answer should always be no. Have you created a mental loop that daily reminds you to love yourself?  Do you look in the mirror and tell yourself how much you love you? When we love ourselves, we…

Don’t edit the possible Accept what shows up. Try it out.  Take it for a test drive. Resist trying to edit the possible.  Dismiss the urge to alter and dilute it by injecting your fears, considerations and biased preconceptions into the mix.  You can kill the magic formula, and miss out on what could have…

Niche pick Create your differentiation from the pack.  Build your brand around it. You possess skills, talents and connections that are unique – only yours. Compete by not competing.  Compete by being decidedly different.

It’s never too late Sometimes I procrastinate, or make a bad decision or travel down the wrong path.  I don’t like it, I work hard to avoid it – but it happens.  What I’ve learned is that I don’t have to own a bad choice forever.  I can start again, even if late. Starting late…

Circumstance or self-inflicted? We fail more than succeed.  Some failures are circumstance.  Some random.  Some self-inflicted. We work the odds to deal with circumstance and randomness.  We create the odds with our decisions. Careless decisions create unwanted outcomes – failures.   They reflect how we think, and how we then choose. We need to think better…