Category: self-help

Show.  Don’t tell. Words are cheaper than table salt.  Used without sincerity and care, they’re all about a transaction, and not a connection. Have you ever asked for directions to find your way in a hotel, a store, or someplace unknown?  Have you ever experienced someone who showed up and took the time to walk…

Hello hustle (@magnusmagnific) Those who choose to hit the snooze button will get their lunch eaten by those who choose greater discipline and energy for their life. Get plenty of sleep.  Manage your energy.  Be self-aware of how you slack.  That cheat, that extra hour in your comfort zone may come at a higher price…

Think more and regret less Once your words are out, you can’t take them back.  Why start moving your lips before you’ve had the chance to listen and think? Resist the urge to get chatty before you know what to say. It insults your intelligence. Avoid being snarky, sarcastic and gossipy – hurtful words have…

The way you carry yourself affects how you’re treated Every day you broadcast to the world how you want to be treated.  Your confidence, self-esteem and personal authority instruct those around you to treat you with dignity and respect.    You thought those powers were invisible.  They’re not. How you treat yourself is how others will…

Dismantle the drama   Let it go. Add some relief to your life.   All the concern on following the perfect script. All the unreasonable expectations, the unnecessary and self-induced stress and conflict. The focus on life being fair.   You don’t need drama to have a full and satisfying life. You don’t need to…

Stop explaining yourself Most who bother to ask don’t care anyway. Learn the difference between being self-aware and self-conscious.  It’s healthy to be introspective, but it’s self-sabotage to constantly live in self-doubt. You need not apologize for, or justify, your feelings. You need not second-guess what you decide, and what you do.   You need not…