Maybe you’re a loser. And maybe not.  But if you are, or in some way you are, you don’t have to continue. You can change.   You can change some things quickly, others slowly.  You can start by stepping outside the comfort and predictability of losing.  You can figure it out, design your plan, and take…

Stand tall Every time we retreat from what we fear, we create a feedback loop.  Our inner wiring starts telling us that what we ran away from is dangerous.  The proof of which is that we ran away. Left unchecked, our continued retreat from what we fear start making us smaller, and the world around…

The price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it. – H.D. Thoreau What’s your life’s balance sheet telling you? Are you willing to let go of encumbrances in order to live a larger life?   Are you willing to self-impose constraints on spending to push you to become more resourceful and self-sufficient? …

Success hides a multitude of sins. – Donald Passman Success masks reality.  The reality that you may not be as good as you think.   The reality that what pushed you over the top yesterday will not work tomorrow.  The reality that the next challenge will be different; will require a better version of you. Celebrate…

What I want now. Or what I want most.  Which will you choose? Excellence and high achievement usually follow the longer path.  Never sacrifice what you truly desire by settling for the shiny object that makes you feel good today. Never confuse a milestone with the desired destination.  Never compromise long-term goals by accepting instant…

Don’t be a bad ender When it’s time to move on, move on. Everything in life is in some stage of change.  Sometimes the journey is ascending, sometimes descending, sometimes stuck.  Relationships, careers, and personal goals are good examples. When the goodness is gone, when you are trying too hard to make things work, when…