What to leave out? Be selective.  Banish the bloat.  Let go of what does not add value to what you do, what you create, and how you live.  Figure out what has use, what has potential, and what needs to stay, or go. Often the most important ingredient is the one you choose not to…

Everything about porn is fake. Everything about you (and me too) must be real. Porn shows up with many masks; not just the raw, sexual stuff.  Gossip, false news, deceptive online content – the list goes on, distinguished by mental and emotional sleight of hand. Fakery compromises our energy, and works feverishly to undermine our…

Learn by listening. What I say today teaches me nothing.  What I learn comes from listening to you.  With listening that takes on many forms. It’s up to me to pay attention.  To observe, to listen, and take it all in.   And only speak when I have value to share.

Ideas are common. Actions rare. Until you act, your genius is just formless, static energy.   Plenty of potential, but nothing delivered.  Until you act, your ideas share no purpose, give no results. Why not act on your ideas?  In some way you will change yourself, and in the process change your world.

Change is the only sure thing We’re moving, and everything around us is too.  Those thinking they can maintain the status quo are living in a fool’s paradise.  Whether change is good or bad is in perspective, not necessarily fact.  But the inevitability of change is a fact.  It happens with clockwork regularity. We must…

What if? What would I do if I didn’t have to do things perfectly? Answer: More and better than I’m doing now. Trying so hard to get it perfect gets in the way of getting it done.   That compelling, irrational desire for perfect is an act of my will and ego, rather than acceptance and…