• It’s always the small stuff

    Is it the mountain ahead, or the stone in your shoe? We get focused on climbing the mountain, and miss the pebbles that trip us up. Pay attention to the small stuff too.

  • Creative destruction

    What has to die? What in your life has to die for you to more fully thrive and be alive?    What has to be destroyed in order to create the better you? Is there a habit you need to jettison?  An attitude you need to change?  An ego that needs to be checked? Unless you…

  • Resist the crush

    Question assumptions Many of our plans are founded on bad assumptions.  Faulty assumptions lead to faulty plans that lead to faulty execution. We fail to ask ourselves the tougher questions – the how and why and what (or better, the so what?) of our thinking and planning.  We fail to go deep – to think…

  • Things significant

    Those five extra minutes When you get five minutes to spare, what do you do?  Do you slack, or snooze? Or do you try something intentional?  Like that phone call you’ve been putting off.  Or that email or letter?  Maybe a few extra pages to read, or time in your journal.  Maybe meditating to get…

  • Experiment!

    Keep making choices Smart ones. Deliberate ones.  Purposeful ones. Choices are experiments in shaping your life, in moving forward on your path. They confirm that you’re in control – at least for the parts you can control.  They give your actions meaning. And always know that there is a way out when you make a…

  • Change your question, change your life

    Don’t ask more. Ask better. Then shut up and listen. You never learn anything while you’re the one talking.