Tag: reality

  • Top Traits of Successful People (Revisited)

    Top Traits of Successful People (Revisited)

    In my 20s, well before I knew anything about adulting or success, I wrote an article called Top 2 Traits of Successful People, in which I earnestly claimed: A successful person needs to be realistic and disciplined. I am here now as a 40 year old with different opinions. I still hold Reality as my…

  • The world as it is

    “You don’t see the world as it is, you see it as you are.” – Talmud Take a risk. Step forward and acknowledge reality.  Release the past. Cast off the mental blinders and embrace what’s different, what you’ve been resisting – perhaps unintentionally – for reasons that are not truly clear. That inertia engine inside…

  • Assumptions Distort Love

    “Assumptions are the termites of relationships.” -Henry Winkler When we make assumptions about a loved one we close ourselves; we are no longer open to see them as they are. We can only see them as we think they are. The fulfillment for love, connection and intimacy are diminished because we are no longer having…

  • Who Am I? | A Creator, A Visionary, A Poet

    “Who Am I? I’m a creator, a visionary, a poet. I approach the world with the eyes of an artist, the ears of a musician, and the soul of a writer. I see rainbows where others see only rain, and possibilities when others see only problems. I love spring flowers, summer’s heat on my body,…

  • To change something, build a new model | Buckminster Fuller

    “You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.” – Buckminster Fuller

  • Living With Love

    “The heart cannot contain both fear and love at the same time. When our hearts contain fear, we cannot love. Fear is worrying that we won’t get what we need. Love is about sharing with the other person. When we are walking with love in our heart, living with love, then we are in an…